What I Wish I Knew In 9th Grade

Written By Colēgia

The transition to high school can be intimidating. Whether you’re attending the same school or a different school, neither of them are seamless. In the first instance, you may feel that your teachers are setting you up to fail based on past experiences. If you’re new to a school, you’re worried about meeting new people and making a good first impression. Unfortunately, you're also worried about the previously mentioned teachers. With that in mind, below are 3 pieces of advice to conquer your 9th grade fears.

“The transition to high school can be intimidating.”

Teachers are Humans

Yes, it is that simple. This is a lesson we all learn at some point in our lives - some later than others. Once you start seeing your teachers as fellow humans, you’ll lose your fears. Seeing your teachers as humans makes it easier to ask them questions, express concerns, communicate effectively, and, consequently, thrive as a student. You might even establish rapport with that teacher, which is something you would be grateful you did when you need college advice and recommendation letters around two years from now. 

There is a crucial caveat to this advice: seeing your teacher as a human requires mutual respect. Respect is necessary for a professional relationship, like you and your teacher’s, to flourish.

“Seeing your teachers as humans makes it easier to ask them questions, express concerns, communicate effectively, and, consequently, thrive as a student. ”
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Relationships (And The Stress) Aren’t Worth it

Many of us have heard this advice at some point, mostly from those older than us. After all, school causes enough stress, so having a relationship compounding the stress makes it worse and steals your focus from what really matters when you’re in ninth grade - starting your high school career strong and setting that standard for the next 3 years. 

Life does not end when high school does. On the contrary, that’s when it begins. In other words, you have more than enough time to experience romantic relationships not too long from now. In the meantime, focus on relationships that matter. Spend time with friends and family who genuinely care about you. You will be glad you invested time with them instead of someone whom you wound up intensely disliking.

“Life does not end when high school does. On the contrary, that’s when it begins.”

Students Should Speak

This applies to just about every situation (except tests - you shouldn’t speak during those). It’s a simple action most of us can perform, but sometimes choose not to. The reasons are varied, but often we fear being embarrassed about speaking. Whether you’re speaking up for yourself or asking a question in class, you should speak. When there is an underlying issue, there’s much more to be gained by speaking up. If you have a question in class, or you don't feel well, you should speak about it. By speaking about it to the appropriate people, you’ll guarantee you’re getting the help you need - either extra review or someone to speak with. Learn to be your own advocate. 

“Learn to be your own advocate. ”
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