How Empathy Can Improve Your Life

Written By Colēgia

One of the most useful qualities to have as an individual is empathy. It can open up many different avenues and help you in several areas. For some of us, we may tend to be naturally more empathetic while for others we need to tune into these feelings. Today we want to take some time to discuss how empathy can help improve our lives.

Expressing Yourself Better

Expression is a key part of communication and empathy plays a large role in this. Oftentimes we may find it difficult to communicate with people when we're unsure of what to say. While it's common for us to want to get our point across and focus the conversation on what we want, it can come across as inconsiderate at times. One way to remedy this is by practicing a sort of self-awareness. This is done by taking time to meditate on how someone else would react in a given situation if the roles were reversed. In order to properly communicate with people, we need to shift our attention from actively saying what we want, to listening. Active listening gives us a better sense of being able to understand where someone else is coming from and in turn expressing ourselves with that in mind.

“Expression is a key part of communication and empathy plays a large role in this.”

Seeing How Others Feel

Empathy helps us bridge the gap between how we feel and how others feel. As people, we're social by nature and we want to understand what others think about the world around them. For some, we may be naturally more optimistic about things whereas others might see things differently. This is good to consider because these viewpoints are valid despite being different. Everyone comes from many different backgrounds and recognizing this can help pave the way toward empathy. Some people may not have the options or luxuries that we do and being mindful and caring about this is good since it demonstrates that we value people. Our emotions matter and so do others which is why it's good to take these steps to understand how people are doing so we can help them if need be.

“Empathy helps us bridge the gap between how we feel and how others feel.”

Taking Action

Being able to take action and demonstrate that you care can mean a lot to someone. A great way to get a headstart on this is by asking how someone is doing since it opens the door towards getting to know what's going on. While some people may be more reserved, it can also help to let someone know that you're there for them if they need someone to talk to. Even something as small as this can make a significant difference in someone's life since it helps them know that they have someone that cares. If we know someone is struggling we can also opt to help them with any resources we have. These kind of things go a long way towards expressing empathy along with improving the quality of someones life. Empathy allows us to forge these strong connections with people so we can get to know others better while also giving us the means of working on how we express that.

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