Leading by Example

Written By Colēgia

Living our lives in a manner that makes us happy is important for our well-being. One way to do this is by leading by example. Not only does this help us find direction but it can also help others find their path as well. Today we want to dive into some ways to do this and why it's so important.

Value Your Integrity

Integrity is everything since it determines what you value and who you are. People with a good sense of integrity have a moral compass that is aligned with helping others while also practicing self-care. In today's world, it can feel increasingly more complex to navigate things with social media being at the forefront. Learning how to be comfortable with who you are as a person without the need for approval is one such example of integrity. Another would be valuing the amount of effort you put into the things you care about since that shows. Everyone has a different idea of what they care about, and aligning your thoughts and actions in a positive manner is the best way to lead by example.

“Integrity is everything since it determines what you value and who you are.”

Practice Good Communication

Being able to communicate in an effective manner can take time but is ultimately worth the effort. Good leaders recognize that there is a limit on how much they can get done on their own. They understand that we live in a social world and that we need help with things sometimes. When the moment arises, we need to be comfortable asking for help and simply talking with others. One way to do this is by focusing on listening. This gives others the chance to feel heard and is a sign of respect. Being mindful of how we say things matters just as much as what we're saying. People are more inclined to work together with those who are flexible since it gives both sides an opportunity to work towards a good outcome. Being patient and calm with others can help with this as well. It's good to keep in mind that everyone is unique and some people may respect certain qualities more than others. Lastly being true to yourself is key for communication since we want to approach others from a place of sincerity.

“Being able to communicate in an effective manner can take time but is ultimately worth the effort.”

Respect Your Boundaries

Knowing what you're capable of doing along with your comfort zone matters. There are some things that we excel at while others we may need to work on, and that's okay. Being able to admit this is a sign of courage since it demonstrates that we are aware of our abilities. When we take the time to respect our boundaries, we give ourselves the space needed to take care of ourselves. If we feel that we aren't being valued in a relationship it can help us determine when we need to step away from something. If we think we're compromising our safety it can be a wake-up call to do the right thing for us. Having a healthy set of boundaries is essential to leading by example since it can show others the value of listening to our thoughts.

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